…And above all, keep trusting! Even if your trust is betrayed. Yes, you read correctly. Even if you are betrayed. Here is what happens…we learn from the actions of our parents, not from what they say. In other words we learn from the modeling behaviors of our parents and society in general. When you are betrayed you are because the other person was not exposed to the concept of trust in its entire wholesome meaning. Therefore, again even if you feel like a da#& ass when you are betrayed, remember it is not personal and you are still providing a great value by modeling your sense of trust for the person who betrayed you. It was never a waste. They are trying to learn that behavior from you…The truth is they don’t know how to trust….and even if they are not aware just yet, they deep inside are drawn to you because of your sense of trust. They want to learn that from you.
Bottom line, to trust others you have to trust yourself and if you don’t, is because you are measuring everybody else against your own perception of who you are and mainly your conditioning… in other words “the thief believes everybody is like him.” If he is not trustworthy obviously he will not trust anybody. He knows better.
Move on and keep trusting. Like a child
And above all enjoy the people who honor and respect your trust because the joy of reciprocity creates more trust and co-creative coherence in the world. In other words Oneness.
In the end we all do the best we can with what we have. The difference is in the modeling we were exposed to and we attract each other with one purpose only, to be modeled the behavior we need to incorporate in our persona to become whole again mirroring others.
Luz
The Thought Provoking, Irreverent Pearl Necklace Grandmother of the 21st C. Paradigm Shifter, Poet, Storyteller, Marketer, Visionary, Blogger, Coach. Mrs. Fire
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9/15/2012
To trust or not to trust
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